Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Tour de Cure 2009



Somehow I have been talked into riding 18 miles on my little bike. It’s for a good cause though. If you want to donate to the American Diabetes Association Tour de Cure 2009 and sponsor myself and/or Team Control, you can click on the link located at the top right hand side of my page or here. The event takes place on June 27, 2009 in Mustang, OK if you want to also come out and support us! This is a ride, not a race (thank goodness!). I have agreed to ride 18 miles, while Jerry and Sparky will more than likely ride 62 miles…of course. :)

Here is a little background information in case you don’t already know. Team Control’s captain and fearless leader is Jerry Willis, who lives with Type I Diabetes. Jerry is also Sparky’s brother for those of you that are really nosey. Jerry was only diagnosed a few years ago with Type I Diabetes, which rarely happens in your late twenties. Jerry had to learn all about Type I Diabetes and how to control and live with it. He is now more active and healthy than many people that do not have to live with any kind of disease. Jerry has been racing bicycles for about a year now and is determined and on track to make the Team Type I racing team…which is a pretty big deal. Just sayin.

I am also riding for my dad who has borderline Type II Diabetes. Type II Diabetes can be prevented, but there needs to be more education available about it.

I’d love to have your support for Jerry and all people living with diabetes as well as my first commitment to a big cycling event!! If you pay me enough…I might wreck on purpose. Just kidding!!

******I have been training for this ride! This past Saturday I rode 15 miles…partially in heavy wind! Other than the wind, it was a great ride and I am sure the 18 miles I have committed to will be super fun!



Keep on Keepin on.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

A New Heart For Daddy

Well, sorta...three new bypassed blood vessels to the heart.

For the last few years I have been living in fear. Every time my phone would ring and I would see that it was my parents calling, I would be afraid to answer. I was afraid that the other end would be bad news about my dad's health or my brother's health. It just is what it is.

This past Wednesday, early morning, I got that call.

My dad had chest pains early Wednesday morning and it wasn't the first time this had happened. My wonderful and rock of a mom followed her instincts and took him to the E.R. despite my father's resistance although he now admits that he always had a feeling that something wasn't right with his heart.

At first I didn't think it was anything too major since it was not a heart attack. Don't let the stigma of the words "heart attack" trick you into believing nothing is wrong if there isn't an actual "heart attack". After a full day Wednesday of waiting in the E.R. because the hospital didn't have any rooms, and a full day of waiting for a very disappointing doctor which I will not get into because it is ridiculously irritating and not important right now, we finally got to see the amazing cardiologist that is Dr. Wong. Yes, of course he is Asian. Our family just attracts the Asians somehow. :)

Anyway, Dr. Wong had his amazing Asian doctor instincts in tact and sensed something was not quite right based off my dad's symptoms, his health history, and that my dad was still having chest "twinges" and small pains while just laying in the E.R. makeshift-room all day. I honestly can't say I know why or what Dr. Wong saw and knew, but I'm glad he did. After battles with the VA Hospital and insurance, the decision was made to have dad transferred to another hospital on Thursday morning where he would have an angiogram.

At this point I thought things would be fine. I went back to work on Thursday morning and planned to go the the afternoon angiogram and back to work afterward. My awesome Aunt recently had a heart scare too and an angiogram. Her angiogram results went well and I assumed that my dad's angiogram results would show similar findings. I was uber wrong.

After about a little over an hour of waiting for Dr. Wong to come out and let us know what was going on inside my dad's heart, Dr. Wong gave us some surprising news. My dad had 70%-80% blockage in three vessels. He would not be allowed to go home and he needed to have open heart surgery pretty quick. I have a feeling that Dr. Wong's great bed side manner skills didn't let on that it was as serious as it was because I and the rest of my family have not seen a surgery planned so quickly.

The angiogram results were discovered around 3:30 in the afternoon and blood was being drawn around 4:30 in the afternoon in prep for the surgery that would occur the following morning. At first his surgery was tentative for either Friday afternoon or Saturday. My mother called me around 7:15 Friday morning to let me know that the surgeon, Dr. Kinally (I have no idea if I spelled that correctly) had just been in to see dad and told them that he would be prepped for surgery and taken down around 8:30 am for his triple bypass heart surgery at 10:00 am.

Well, daddy did great in surgery! We were told it would be at least 3 hours and his surgery was actually only about 2 hours. Dr. Kinally said daddy did great and there were no complications.

So, it's Sunday and daddy is recovering incredibly well. Obviously his chest hurts and the pain pills and Sir Koffs A Lot are his best friends...other than my mother of course. He will be in the hospital for a couple more days and he can't lift anything over about 5 lbs for at least 6 weeks.

Hopefully daddy will take his new bypassed blood vessels and feed them healthy foods and work them out with some walking a few times a week when he's finally able to get around. I might have to become a bit of a nag.

But for now, I'm so happy he's recovering well and so happy that so many people have been concerned about his recovery. Thanks to everyone.

Obviously I have pictures to share!!! The entire time daddy has been joking about whether or not he was going to make it onto my blog. He should know that I can't resist a good open heart surgery patient to exploit.

Daddy and Sir Koffs A Lot


Me kissing my daddy.


Mom feeding dad pudding


My sister It's Because I'm the Mom kissing dad. She had to fly in last minute from Oregon.


My niece and nephew who also came in from Oregon.


Enjoy and cherish your family despite your differences. Love one another, cherish one another, accept one another, enjoy one another.

Keep on Keepin on.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Attack of the Snails

Our home has been infiltrated by snails. They are everywhere...well, they're everywhere on the outside of our house. We seriously counted about 10 snails (that we could see) on one outside wall and then accumulated a few more out of just a small section of our front yard.

EWWWWWWW!


...and then there was this one little loner on our back porch. My little Ruby just sat and watched it without bothering it all. She's so sweet.



I'd say that he's not so bad lookin when you get close up.


I don't know much about snails, what they eat, what they do, or whatever their purpose in life is (if they have one)...but I am definitely going to google it.

Keep on Keepin on.

Friday, May 22, 2009

When Are You Going to Get Married?

That seems to be the popular question to ask me lately. I’m beginning to believe that everyone got together and decided to ask me this question all at the same time thinking it might get me in some kind of hurry. So, I’m setting the record straight.

If you know me really well, you know that I am kind of the exception to most girl rules. I don’t like the color pink, I don’t like scrapbooking, I don’t care for crafts, I don’t enjoy shopping, I’m not a fan of heels or owning lots of shoes, and I don’t like to wear make-up. I'm sure I could come up with more dislike, but I'll leave it at that. I like comfy jeans especially if they have holes, tight comfy t-shirts, flip flops or any form of sandal or cool athletic shoes. I like having messy natural hair with no hair products in it and I don’t brush my hair either. I got a haircut last week and it was the first haircut I had gotten in a year and 4 months. I enjoy being outdoors and doing adventurous activities or reading a book. The one girlie thing that I can really admit to is that I love wearing dresses in the summer.

I definitely have never been in a rush to get married or have kids. Final.

Sadly and to much of everyone’s disappointment and dismay, this is probably not going to change…at least for now. Go ahead and curse and scoff at me…I’m used to it and immune to it by now.

I explained to an inquiring mind the other day that I just don’t feel the need to rush into getting married. I want it to be right and when I know it is right it will happen. This inquiring mind pleaded that they just wanted to see me settled and happy; and to that I say: I am happy. I don’t need to be married to someone to be happy. And for this thought process I am grateful.

I don’t know how I came to be so unconventional, non conservative, stubborn, or just plain different from most people around me; I just am. If it makes you feel any better, I do want to get married…eventually, but I’m still only 26 years old (almost 27 years old in July, cough cough) and it will happen when it is supposed to happen. And to disappoint you probably even more, I don’t even know if I want kids. I might, but I just don’t know right now. I might want to adopt a little Asian baby.

So, if you’re curious when I’m going to get married, you know just as much as I do. I don’t know. I’m sure when I do know something, you will know shortly after.

Don’t get me wrong, I know that most of this inquiry is due to love and care and worry. But, trying to scare me into getting married soon by saying, “Your dad is not getting any younger” just won’t fly with me in my book. I’m very aware of what is going on around me, but I’m still not putting myself into a situation if I’m not prepared for it.

Plus, if I were to begin thinking about getting married, it still probably wouldn’t happen for a while because I’ve never seriously thought about what kind of wedding would suit me well. And I’m sure I’d be totally indecisive about it and it would take me a very long time to figure it out. So, don’t get your hopes up anytime soon, people. I’m not.

Love you. Wish you well. I hope everything is beautiful and happy in your life. Let’s just enjoy today and wish for an even better tomorrow.

Keep on Keepin on.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Twilight: New Moon

The obsession continues. I'm sure there will be more to come.



Keep on Keepin on.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Some Picture Love

I've noticed that I hadn't posted pics in awhile so I decided to post some pics of a couple of cycling race trips. Sparky and I have been crazy busy between work, moving, 4 dogs, and his out of town cycling races. I have to say that I am quite relieved that we are home this weekend and next weekend. But, our small weekend trips are definitely fun.

That's the biggest pancake I ever did see.


Here come the Pros. This was last weekend in Fayetteville, Arkansas at the Joe Martin Stage Race.


I'll just take pictures of my feet.


Should someone tell him he has to race in a couple of hours??


Someone is not a morning person.


No Swine Flu for us!


After Sparky's crit at Velo Tek in Kansas.


Kara and Jerry watching Sparky's crit at Velo Tek in Kansas.


Before the time trial at Velo Tek in Kansas.


Isn't that the goofiest outfit? You must be secure in your manhood to wear this.


Sparky and me at Jerry's birthday dinner.



Keep on Keepin on.

Friday, May 15, 2009

Triatheltes in OKC...and My Home

This weekend in OKC is quite unique and exciting. The Boathouse International Triathlon is featuring the 2009 Pan-American Triathlon Confederation Championship for Juniors and Elites. The races take place on Saturday, May 16th and Sunday May 17th at what most of us know as the Chesapeake Boathouse or Regatta Park in Downtown OKC near the Oklahoma River.

This event is great for OKC. There are many Junior and Elite athletes in town, some in OKC for the first time ever. Many of these atheletes are on track to make the 2012 Olympic Team and we should show our support. I have been somewhat disappointed with the lack of advertisement for this event. Many people I have spoken to about this triathlon haven't heard anything about this big event going on this weekend and I know I would never have known it was going on if Sparky and I hadn't been asked to host one of the athletes by a friend who is also a local triathlete... and I believe on some triathlete committee (don't quote me.)

So, Sparky and I got our spare room finally kind of put together at the last minute in hopes to provide a somewhat decent place for our athlete to stay. Sparky picked her up from the airport yesterday and she will be staying with us through Sunday. It's definitely interesting hosting someone for a weekend, or at least it's interesting to me since I've never let a stranger stay in the bedroom next to me. But, from my one evening of hosting so far, it wasn't bad at all. We may be lucky in that we are hosting someone who seems nice and appreciative. Plus, we know her focus is on her competition this weekend so I don't think she will require much attention or entertainment. I did offer up some dinner last night since Sparky and I were obviously going to need to eat as well and it was obviously the least I could do. Except for the fact that I really only know how to cook rice and salmon and I got lucky that she likes rice and seemed totally stoked that I had my own real rice cooker. Just sayin.

For the most part, we talked a little and then she kind of did her own thing. I don't ask people a lot of questions about their personal lives for some reason...I guess I don't feel the need to pry too much in people's lives. I figure if they want to tell me, they will. I'm probably wrong but I'm ok with that. I did gather that our athlete is intelligent, well educated, and has trained and lived in Australia for the last 6 or 7 months. I am also under the assumption that she is pretty good at what she does. It's definitely exciting to have her in our home and we might try to take her out to dinner tonight if her schedule permits...since all she's really seen of OKC is the airport, our home, and I think the race location...including the OKC river.

Don't get me started on the OKC river. Let's just say that it's pretty murky anyway (in my opinion) and there was a big storm the night before last. Our athlete swam in the river yesterday and I am going to go with the idea that she might be a pretty tough chick. I hope she doesn't mind that I just refered to her as being a pretty tough chick.

So, if you're looking for something unique and interesting to do this weekend in OKC, check out the triathlon. Here is a blurb about it pulled from the USA Triathlon website:

Elite athletes from the Americas and Caribbean nations will gather in the heartland of the United States for the 2009 ITU Pan American Triathlon Confederation Championships in Oklahoma City, Okla., on May 16.

The elite draft-legal Olympic distance championship races are part of the weekend of activities at the Boathouse International Triathlon. Sprint distance junior and age group races are also on the schedule. A total prize purse of $30,000 will be awarded in the elite division.

The race also kicks off the five-race 2009 USA Triathlon Twenty-12 Elite Series, the first year in a build up to the 2012 London Olympic Games.


The race begins off the docks of Chesapeake Boathouse with a one lap, 1.5k swim in the Oklahoma Rivers. Athletes will then bike 40k, four laps north and south up Lincoln Boulevard circling the Oklahoma State Capitol. The race ends with a 10k, four lap run along the River Trails west of the Boathouse.

Oh, and the athlete we're hosting is Jenna Shoemaker. She also has her own blog.

Keep on Keepin on.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

You Never Know When It Could Happen To You

Yesterday was layoff day at my work. Many of us did not know it was coming and didn’t think it would happen at our place of work. But it did. About 50 people/co-workers/friends are out of work as of yesterday and many of them have worked at the company for a long time.

I think I heard that one of the unfortunate individuals laid off yesterday had worked for the company for around 20 or 30 years. Two friends in my department were laid off and one of them had worked there for 7 years. We didn’t see it coming and we didn’t suspect the day to be any different a day until we noticed the rent-a-cop standing rent-a-guard in the downstairs lobby. And we only thought maybe one person might be getting let go.

It’s definitely eye opening. It’s definitely surreal. It’s definitely frightening. It’s definitely heartbreaking. It’s definitely a situation you never want to experience. It’s definitely not an experience you would ever wish upon anyone else.

I am fortunate enough to have made it through this layoff round and hoping that there will be no further layoffs for my sake and for the sake of all my fellow co-workers and friends and their families. There is so much guilt in my heart right now for still having a job and for feeling so relieved that it wasn’t me…or at least it wasn’t me this time. My one year anniversary of working for this company and loving every minute of it despite the normal and expected ups-and-downs is a reminder of how vulnerable I am and how vulnerable I probably was during the selection process of who to “let go.” I am forever grateful for whoever fought for my employment and I think I know who they are.

I am also grateful that Sparky still has a job (we work for the same company) and his job still seems a lot more secure than mine. Although I am beginning to feel like “you never know”…a feeling that I know many people have felt for awhile now and I never could truly relate to; I could just be as truly empathetic as possible.

And that’s the least we can all do. Always be supportive of one another. Always appreciate those around you. Be empathetic. Be sympathetic. Be understanding. Listen. Appreciate what you have because there is always someone who has less than you. And you never know when it could happen to you.

Keep on Keepin on.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Make Your Body A Priority

Last week I sent out a mass e-mail to close family and friends asking for their support in my commitment to ride 18 miles in the Tour de Cure. I sent everyone my personal page where they can make an online donation and read why I have committed to this cause.

My original cause was to support Sparky's brother who lives with Type I diabetes. You can also view his Tour de Cure personal page here.

My cause as of last night is slightly different. I found out last night that my dad has pre-diabetes which can turn into Type II Diabetes. I don't know much about how serious his situation is except that his doctor is starting him on medication for it and has instructed my dad to meet with a dietitian...which my dad missed his first meeting with yesterday.

Awareness about Diabetes is crucial. The simple explanation of the differences between Type I and Type II diabetes is that most people who develop Type II diabetes have done so due to poor dieting and lifestyle choices. In most cases (not all), it can be prevented.

From National Diabetes Information Clearinghouse (NDIC)

Can insulin resistance and pre-diabetes be reversed?
Yes. Physical activity and weight loss help the body respond better to insulin. By losing weight and being more physically active, people with insulin resistance or pre-diabetes may avoid developing type 2 diabetes.

The Diabetes Prevention Program (DPP) and other large studies have shown that people with pre-diabetes can often prevent or delay diabetes if they lose a modest amount of weight by cutting fat and calorie intake and increasing physical activity—for example, walking 30 minutes a day 5 days a week. Losing just 5 to 7 percent of body weight prevents or delays diabetes by nearly 60 percent. In the DPP, people aged 60 or older who made lifestyle changes lowered their chances of developing diabetes by 70 percent. Many participants in the lifestyle intervention group returned to normal blood glucose levels and lowered their risk for developing heart disease and other problems associated with diabetes. The DPP also showed that the diabetes drug metformin reduced the risk of developing diabetes by 31 percent.

People with insulin resistance or pre-diabetes can help their body use insulin normally by being physically active, making wise food choices, and reaching and maintaining a healthy weight. Physical activity helps muscle cells use blood glucose for energy by making the cells more sensitive to insulin.


It is always important to be aware and conscious about what you are putting into your body and what you are doing to it. We all have the choice to live a happy and healthy life, we just need to arm ourselves with the facts. We need to teach ourselves that a sedentary and fast food lifestyle just do not mix together.

The last few years, I have been more conscious about what I eat and even more so that last few months since Sparky is a vegetarian. Now, I don't think I could ever technically become a vegetarian, but I naturally dislike beef and pork and normally just don't eat them. I regularly eat fish. I do throw in chicken every once in awhile... but not too often since Sparky normally eats the rest of my food. Food portioning is another very important factor in what you are feeding your body! Just because a restaurant gives you enough food for 2-3 people to be well fed, it doesn't mean you need to or should eat it all in one sitting...unless you ride a bicycle everyday for 2 hours or do some other form of workout that makes your body burn 3000 calories.

Another food choice of mine that I have been committed to the last few years is that I just stay away from FAST FOOD establishments. I do allow myself an Egg McMuffin from McDonalds once a week...if that, normally on Fridays, since I regularly eat oatmeal for breakfast. If fast food is my only resort, I will order grilled chicken and never ever get the sauce such as mayo. I never order the meals because I rarely drink soda and rarely eat french fries. In fact, I rarely eat any food that is fried.

And of course...I eat a lot of rice. :)

I know some of you are probably thinking I am crazy and obsessive and don't know how to enjoy some food, but you are wrong. I used to drink Dr. Pepper, Mt. Dew, and sweet tea like it was water; but it's not. Now, I actually drink water except for my coffee in the morning. I love chocolate, but I normally try to eat dark chocolate rather than milk chocolate. I absolutely love chocolate milk, but thanks to Jenny-Poo's suggestion, I have switched to soy chocolate milk and it is delicious. I LOVE ice cream and think about it everyday, but I might let myself have some ice cream every two weeks. It takes time to teach and train your mind that certain foods and drinks that are easily available just are not good for your body. But it is a choice and it is very possible. You can have your favorite foods, just not every day and not in large portions.

I eat something small about every 2-3 hours which comes up to about 5 meals a day rather than 3 meals day because your metabolism slows down after about 3 hours and the next thing you eat, your body will latch on to...causing weight gain (obviously a very simple explanation).

Here are some other smart tactics if shopping for food: the fewer ingredients the better; and if you can't read or pronounce the ingredients, you probably shouldn't consume it. Try looking for versions of your favorite and regular food purchases that have the official USDA ORGANIC circular white and green certification on it; just because the product has "organic" scribbled really pretty on the label doesn't mean it is organic. It has to have the USDA certification.



Fruits and vegetables and beans...especially black beans (not pork n beans) are normally always good choices, especially if they are locally grown. The fewer the pesticides the better!

And I have also learned if you cut out buying so much meat, you can still afford the healthier choices that I hear most people complain are too expensive.

Now, I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I try to make smart food choices everyday and balance out food for pleasure and food as a necessity. Balance is always a great rule of thumb in any situation in life. I have emphasized that these are lifestyle choices and everyday choices that I make for myself because I have found that they work for me. Find out what works for you as long as you are truly being honest with yourself and listening to your body.

We all need to be smart and think about what we feed our bodies. We need to take care of our bodies and our minds and appreciate them every day. Is your Body a priority?

Keep on Keepin on.

Friday, May 08, 2009

Surprises

Life is full of surprises.

A couple of weeks ago, my family celebrated my dad’s 65th birthday with a surprise Birthday Luau. First off, I am not, never have been and never will be much of a host. I prefer to take a very backseat and observatory role in social gatherings. I guess I’m just a little odd like that but I have come to accept this little quirk of mine. I love to watch and listen to others interactions and conversations.

So, we surprised my dad by telling him I wanted to cook dinner for him, my mother, and my brother at Sparky’s house. The suggestion that I wanted to cook dinner should have given something away in his head…he should know better than to think that I would do something like that. Anyway, one of the reasons for having it at Sparky’s house was that I knew my dad wouldn’t expect the entire family to be over there. And I was right!



He did not suspect a thing until he saw the little Hawaiian girl sign swaying in the wind in the front yard that said something like “Luau Here” or “Party Here”. He was super surprised and it was fun to do that for him.

This is a pic of myself, my mother, the birthday boy, and my awesome bro.


A few days following the party, a few girls from work and I were sitting around...talking...about...work... and while we were discussing very serious work related matter...somehow my dad's birthday party came up in the discussion. Anyway, the girls I work with wanted to see some pictures from the birthday party, so I sent them a few. One of the girls, who is a good friend of mine at work and out of work became very curious about a couple of people in one of my pics. This co-worker of mine and I have worked together for almost a year now. The pics I sent had small captions explaining "who" and "what" and there was one particular picture that caused a HUGE surprise...below is the pic.

Meet my dad and my cousins. Also meet my dad AND my CO-WORKER's cousins!



That's right. We have the same cousins...through marriage. Now my co-worker and I aren't related by blood, but we still joke that we are related and she never thought she would have an Asian cousin. SURPRISE! You kinda do now! And if you want to meet my kind-of cousin, she has a blog too!!!

FYI: She's white too. Just sayin. I'm surrounded.

Don't you just love all of life's surprises? I do.

Keep on Keepin On.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Babalou's First Award



I officially have my first blogging award! All thanks to C over at Random Thoughts and Musings from the Island. C is my little Asian Canadian blogging buddy that I have come to love and adore. I check her blog every day to get an update on her country living and her sweet little bitty little one. Her pics are always fun to look at, her recipes and homemade foods look so delicious (and one day I might actually try one)...for now, I LOVE looking at them and drooling all over my computer.

Now, it's my turn to award this fab award to fabulous people I have met through blogging.


Here are the rules:

1. Put the logo on your blog or post.
2. Nominate up to 10 blogs which show great attitude and/or gratitude!
3. Be sure to link your nominees within your post.
4. Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.
5. Remember to link the person from whom you received your award.

Rantings of a Blonde Kind

It's Because I'm the Mom

Starshine Report

Keep on Keepin on.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Shop and Give: TOMS

TOMS. Go ahead. Try these Vegan and Canvas Shoes.

For every pair of shoes you buy, TOMS will give a pair of shoes to a child in need. One for one.

Seriously. How can anyone say no to that? I think this is one of the greatest ideas in a long time. Most people want to help others in need including the poor in other countries, but many people just don't really know how to go about it. Many people falsely believe the contribution they can make just won't or can't make a difference; but they are wrong. This is just ONE simple way of going about helping out a child in another country who has never felt the comfort of a simple shoe; something many of us think is simple and take for granted everyday.

Below is their (TOMS) story copied directly from their website.
One for One
TOMS Shoes was founded on a simple premise: For every pair you purchase, TOMS will give a pair of shoes to a child in need. One for One. Using the purchasing power of individuals to benefit the greater good is what we're all about.

Our Story
In 2006 an American traveler, Blake Mycoskie, befriended children in Argentina and found they had no shoes to protect their feet. Wanting to help, he created a company that would match every pair of shoes sold with a pair given to a child in need. One for One. Blake returned to Argentina with a group of family, friends and staff later that year with 10,000 pairs of shoes made possible by caring TOMS customers.

Since our beginning, TOMS has given over 140,000* pairs of shoes to children in need through the One for One model. Because of your support, TOMS plans to give over 300,000 pairs of shoes to children in need around the world in 2009.

Our ongoing community events and Shoe Drop Tours allow TOMS supporters and enthusiasts to be part of our One for One movement. Join us.

Why shoes?
Most children in developing countries grow up barefoot. Whether at play, doing chores or just getting around, these children are at risk.

Walking is often the primary mode of transportation in developing countries. Children can walk for miles to get food, water, shelter and medical help. Wearing shoes literally enables them to walk distances that aren't possible barefoot.

Wearing shoes prevents feet from getting cuts and sores on unsafe roads and from contaminated soil. Not only are these injuries painful, they also are dangerous when wounds become infected. The leading cause of disease in developing countries is soil-transmitted parasites which penetrate the skin through open sores. Wearing shoes can prevent this and the risk of amputation.

Many times children can't attend school barefoot because shoes are a required part of their uniform. If they don't have shoes, they don't go to school. If they don't receive an education, they don't have the opportunity to realize their potential.

There is one simple solution...SHOES.

Four of the planet's six billion people live in conditions inconceivable to many. Lets take a step towards a better tomorrow.




And below are the pair of TOMS I purchased today at a local shop in OKC. You can also easily find a pair online. Their are so many different colors and styles that you are bound to find at least one you like. I was torn between the red pair I purchased and a solid light yellow pair. I might go back and get a second pair...you know...because it's for a good cause.




The world has so much to offer us. Show us. Teach us. We just have to be willing and open to all of it's gifts.

Keep on Keepin on.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

I Heart U2

I just thought I would brag to the world that Babalou just bought and printed her kick butt U2 tickets before they go on sale to the public this Friday. In your Face!!! It pays to know season tickets holders with passwords made of pure Gold.

Friday, April 10, 2009

You Know You're An Asian When....

You're moving some of your stuff over to your boyfriend's house and one of the first things you have to bring is your big bag of real rice from the Asian market. Just sayin.

Keep on Keepin on.

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

Suddenly

As I was sitting at work, attempting to focus on my deadline, I was suddenly overcome with the feeling of how ridiculously happy I am in my life. I had to stop typing for a moment and just close my eyes. All theses wonderful images and thoughts just overwhelmed my already happy heart. I don’t know if I have ever really felt this sense of overwhelming happiness. I feel so lucky and grateful (not blessed) for the way my life has changed in the past year. It was all meant to happen the way it has happened. There was a path I was supposed to be on and a path I need to stay on; there always will be.

I don’t believe in being “blessed” although I was raised a Catholic and my mother is still one of the most loyal Catholics in the world…with the exception of maybe the Pope. I am not an atheist either. But, I’m not sold and not really supportive of organized religion. I’m especially against HUGE churches that make money off of people’s fear of disappointing God. I’m also against big and small churches that gain power and take advantage of the poor by instilling the fear of disappointing God. I do believe that any God is and will always be loving and he does expect his people to be kind, fair, and loving to one another. But that is just me. It seems that too many organized religions have too much judgment and hate and hypocrisy for me to support them. I’ll stick with trying to be the best person I can be to those I encounter everyday.

So much has happened in the past few weeks. It could be overwhelming, and I’ll admit, there were a few moments of tears and doubt. But today, I have no regret. I am confident with my decisions and I am overcome with love and happiness. Always follow your heart but also consider all your options. Do your best for yourself but still take others into consideration as well. Think before you act. Be confident in your decisions and never regret for a second moving forward. Live your life. Life a wonderful and happy life.

Keep on Keepin on.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Sparky

My mind and body are beginning to feel the lack of blogging. I've become incredibly scatterbrained, restless, anxious, unable to focus, and exhausted from all the above. My lip has the herp again (cold sore). I know when my lip gets the herp that I need to slow down and take some time to relax. And what's more relaxing to me other than sharing TMI with the world...or the handful of you that might actually read this blog (or lack of blog) on a semi regular basis? Well, probably sleeping or yoga or a massage...all with a glass of wine somewhere in there of course...but I'll blog for right now.

So, what's been going on lately? Well, as many of you may know or have caught on to because I have the brightest readers ever, there is a new VIP in my life. He's super uber special and I think I might keep him around for quite awhile. Now, as many of you also know, sometimes I can develop temporary moments of Tourettes, but this is most times a good thing. I have created wonderful nicknames, songs, and accents from my sometimes condition. So, randomly one day while I was sweetly beckoning the new VIP, somehow I called him "Sparky" out of no where...and it has stuck. So from now on, he will be forever known as Sparky in this blog...unless my sometimes Tourettes creates some other wonderful concoction of a pet name.

So, in formally introducing Sparky to everyone, I will share some photos of this past weekend. Although Sparky has a real job in which he is forced to sit at a desk in a cube just like myself, he spends his free time not only with me, but with cycling. You know? The Lance Armstrong Tour de France kind of cycling where groups of men cycle around in spandex because they love it so much. And let me tell you something...I love it too. I never thought I would say this...but boy oh boy oh boy...I love some FIT cyclists (key word being fit) riding around in spandex...it's pretty darn sexy. Just saying.

This past weekend was my first experience at a Sparky cycling race. I had one of the best times! Although the first day was windy and cold, I loved watching all the different races and I especially loved being there to support Sparky. I know he loves it and enjoys it, therefore I do as well. AND...even though I would only see Sparky for a split second when the pack would come around for another lap, I was so excited every time the pack and Sparky would come around for that second. I learned a lot about road racing this past weekend and I learned that Sparky is pretty dang good at it too. I might elaborate or brag on that in the future. For now, enjoy some photos from my first ever Sparky cycling race.

The Team


Riding to the start line


Waiting to start (and lots of fit men in spandex)


Sea of Spandex...Wait...I mean...Cyclists


Sparky!!!!


Racing by for a second


Awwww...Babalou and Sparky


The pic of the trip


Keep on Keepin on.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

It's One Of Those Days

It’s one of those days. It’s one of those days you predicted even the night before when you were trying to fall asleep but couldn’t; even though you were incredibly tired. You woke up throughout the night, you actually got out of bed once knowing you were wide awake but still scolded yourself into going back to bed. It’s one of those days that once you finally fell asleep last night it seemed your alarms went off, and then you couldn’t wake up even though your alarms were going off for an hour and a half.

It’s one of those days. It’s one of those days you predicted would not go well. You woke up tired. You woke up not wanting to be awake. You woke up groggy. You woke up cursing in your head about being a female. You woke up trying to think of every reason why you should be awake. You woke up trying to think of every reason to avoid why you should be awake. It’s one of those days you woke up wishing was another day…like tomorrow even. It’s one of those days.

It’s one of those days. It’s one of those days that you have to force yourself to get out of bed. It’s of those days that you have to force yourself to kiss your loved one’s good bye and promise, “I’ll see you later.” It’s one of those days you wanted to lay in bed all day with your lovely and just cuddle. It’s one of those days that you wish your body was not doing what it was doing. It’s one of those days that you are hopeful your mind is stronger than your body. It’s one of those days that you know will be slow. It’s one of those days you hope no one does anything to irritate you. It’s one of those days that you hope you can find your patience. It’s one of those days that makes your leg jerk up and down from anxiety over who knows what as you write this. It’s one of those days you can’t explain, justify, or understand why it is what it is.

It’s one of those days. It’s one of those days that regardless of how I may predict or assume it will turn out, I can control how I feel about it. It’s one of those days that I decide how I feel, how I want to react, how I want to interact with others, how I want to perceive myself and the world. It’s one of those days that I won’t let be ruined because of whatever frivolous and temporary matters may be plaguing my mind. It’s one of those days like any other day…possibly with more hormones and additional irritations. It’s one of those days I choose my path; I choose my words; I choose my feelings; I choose my thoughts; I choose.

It’s one of those days.

Keep on Keepin on.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

My Best Thinking Occurs in the Shower

So, I figured something out this morning in the shower…because some of my best thinking occurs in the shower. Don’t ask me why, but it just does. But this epiphany came about completely by accident and because I am…well, to be honest, a clumsy but oh so charming “special” person…no offense to anyone.

Here is what I discovered:

If you need to either clean out your sinuses or really wake up (or both for that matter), just get shampoo up your nasal cavity. Works like a charm. The pain will wake you up for sure, and your nose will quickly begin to flow and then start gushing out anything that may have been lodged up in there.

Don’t worry. The pain will subside eventually.

(p.s. I actually seriously do not recommend this method.)

Keep on Keepin on.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Find Your Bliss

I am sitting at my dining table this Sunday morning, sipping on my large mug of coffee, gazing out my plantation shutters with the chilly sunlight streaming in, admiring my white Valentine flowers in their tall sleek white vase; and feeling incredibly blissful.

The last two months have been an enchanting whirlwind of learning, living, listening, and loving.

Find your bliss. Hold on to it. Love it. Respect it. Enjoy it. (and not in a Lenny kind of way)

Keep on Keepin on.

Monday, February 09, 2009

Monday Picture Love

Camping Edition.

The new V.I.P and I went on our first camping trip together this past weekend. I think I passed the camping trip test. He says I didn't complain too much and I say he didn't expect me to do too much. So, all in all, a success.

Who went? The V.I.P., the V.I.P's brother, the V.I.P's brother's girlfriend, and me. We hiked the first day for about two hours because we arrived later in the afternoon and had little time to do a vigorous hike. Afterward, we (being them) set up the tent and then we went to the local small town to grab some grub. The evening consisted of the boys continuously finding firewood, sitting around a fire and getting camp fire smoke blown in my face, peeing in the woods, the boys continuously arguing over how to best keep the fire going (I swear it's every man's birthright to have this argument as many times as he wishes in his lifetime) and trying to not be the first person to fall asleep.

The V.I.P made a sweet attempt at providing an awesome campfire breakfast, but it turned out to be what I can only assume is worse than prison mush. I only speaketh the truth. But, we were all already in wonderful moods despite the breakfast disaster because we had awoken to a dozen beautiful deer roaming around our campsite. You can't beat that.



The V.I.P = Very Important Person

V.I.P and I about to fall off the ledge.


The V.I.P, the Diana, and a Sigg.


It was a gorgeous day in February.


I like you just as you are.


Classic Babalou


He had good intentions. That's all that matters.


"Honey, I think I hear something wrestling around outside."


"Oh, that's deer."

Keep on Keepin on.